One of my biggest AH HA moments in my transformation was the concept of weekly calories and budgeting. The fact that a less than stellar day nutritionally could still be saved by a forward week if you made up for it before or after; you budget for it. A calorie currency if you will.
If calories were currency, then fat is a debt. You have to
save calories to pay off your debt. You can only save so much money, just like
you can only limit the number of calories you eat by so much. There is a sweet
spot. Ideally your spot is one where you have small indulgences which allow you
to not feel deprived, but not so much restriction that you go hog wild one day.
A moderate but aggressive pace is ideal. Fast enough to see
progress, but slow enough to enjoy some indulgences so you are not feeling
deprived. There is a happy place.
What works best for me during a calorie deficit run is to
take one maintenance day per week for sanity. I eat a bit more overall, and eat
a couple of things that I normally do not have a budget for during deficit
days. Some of my favorites are cake, wine, and chocolate. Are those ideal foods? No. Can they be enjoyed
moderately? Yes. There really are no good or bad foods, just ones that make you
feel best.
Perfection is the enemy of good. Allowing these treats
prevents bigger calorie spending days that I cannot overcome in a week. Sit down and make yourself a calorie budget,
today. Try to set social events on maintenance days so that you have some room
to play. With the right mindset, you can make it happen.